Sunday, September 13, 2009

Too soon?

So yeah, I faced my fears and told my crush about how I felt about him. He told me that he felt the same way but that we should just remain friends. That he's stressed out about some things in his life at the moment and don't want to start anything yet.

I don't believe what he told me. That's just a nicer way of saying no or not interested, I'm sure. But that's ok. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I'm proud of myself actually since this is a pretty big step for me. Usually, I wait for guys to come up to me. And if they don't, then in the end I missed out (kinda) for not taking that tiny risk.


otin said...

My true take is that you are probably correct. No guy says "Lets be friends" if he is interested in a woman. The thing is, you don't know the real reason why, and you might not ever know, but at least you tried, and there is no shame or embarrassment in that!

Randomization said...

Yeah, now I know what's up instead of wondering "what if?". The "what if?" is the worst, in my opinion.

Haha, I "created" this pic since I hated the first one I put up. I took it from a music video.

Alexis! said...

My first serious boyfriend did this to me, but a week later he asked me out and we dated for two years. Not to give false hope, but it's not completely over!